Hipocresy in sex equality

In Mass effect 3 Liara has a father who is a female
Due to her alien species being all phisicaly females
And has a mum
That's how it should be
Father , person who inpregnates
Mother , person that gets pregnant
Like if a kid has "two mums" or "two dads"  (homosexual parents) one should be the dad and one the mum , no matter if their are male or female
Being male or female should be irrelevant to it .
People that question families of two females and a kid/ two males and a kid , are clearly saying they think this makes a bad difference.
Not just as homosexuals individuals but as males and females.
Why does a family need a female and a male ? Aren't women capable of doing the same things as men ?Aren't women capable of doing the same things as male parents ?
I see no difference.
Two females or two males or one male and one female

The right way to straighten your hair

Most people dry their hair with a towel and then use the straightener.
To make it easier for you use a hairdryer (even a cheap one is fine) and a roll hair brush
 With normal pastic studs !!! Not horse hair studs!!!
Because the ones with loads of thin studs make your hair tangle and break.

Use the brush to get your hair as you pass the hot hair over the pieces of hair.


Then you can use your straightener as you normally would.
If you have loads of hair I reccomend you use clips , put some of your hair up and straighten it by pieces.

Mistakes parents tend to do

• Tell their kids that they are too fat (The world already gives too much importance to our bodies , there is no point on putting the finger in the wound)
• Tell their kids that they can't reach a goal.
• Not talking to their kids enough.
• Call their kids stupid/useless when they commit a mistake (This makes your kids believe that they are useless and losing their self confidence , besides they'll start lying to avoid being called stupid)
• Not watching out to know if their kids are really eating (Many times kids starving themselves are not noticed by the parents)
• Not paying enough attention to the kids.
• Not giving enough guidance and not explaining how things really are.
• Make them feel like having a bf/gf is something that they should keep secret away from you (They are going to do so anyway , you like it or no. Is better that they know that they have nothing to hide and introduce him/her to you , so you know what kind of person he/she is )
• Having too high expectations for them (Is okay to ask your kids to get good qualifications and behave well ...But not too much , just check that they are doing their best . You can't ask them more than they can do. Some people are better at some thing than others)
• They don't ask themselves : Is my kid happy with himself/herself ?
• They don't tell their kids they are beautiful
• They don't cuddle them enough
• They don't trust them enough
• They don't stick for them enough (If you don't stick for your own , no one will )

How to feel good in your own skin

• Wear clothes that fit you properly
• Wear clothes that bring on the strong points of your body and hides the ones that you like  the least.

Like for example , you may like your shoulders but not like your thighs that much , so you can wear a t shirt that is open at the top and wide boyfriend jeans.
We all have different shapes and sizes and need different size and shape clothes.

• Put some effort in your skin if needed , get some nice cream...Don't see it as a task , sit down and have it as a time to pamper yourself . Maybe with some music ? Singing , having me time .
• Have as many nail polish colours as you like . Who said you can have to many colours? I got like a full bag of them <3
• Buy shoes ! essential ! Don't be afraid to get them non-flat , if you can't walk in hills or don't find them comfortable  , you can try wearing platforms , there is no need to wear them everyday tho . As you feel , you do .
• If you don't like your hair , change it ! There is a style for everyone.
• Look online for inspiration and think if it would look good on you , and if you want it .
• Buy new clothes from time to time.

How to NOT flirt

• Don't look desperate
• Don't be obvious
• Don't look like silly girl
• Don't do the typical "HIII" waving your arm across the room and shouting (that embarash guys and makes them not want to see you again)
• Don't act like a slut

Next !!!

• If he stinks , that's unacceptable . Next !!!
• Not too lazy
• If he does,t take you anywhere
• If he just thinks in sex
• If he wears tracksuits all the time
• If he treats your family badly
• If he says that another girl is prettier than you 
• If he doesn't care at all about how he looks
• If he doesn't respect you
• If he does,t have a sense of humour
• If he doesn,t treat you like his one and only

Things to do when you are bored

1. Write on a diary.
2. Do DIY.
3. Watch a movie online.
4. Learn a new recipe.
5. Play videogames.
6. Draw.
7. Use Youtube.
8. Listen to new music.
9. Learn words in another language.
10. Read gossip.
11. Listen to music.
12. Make a to do list.
13. Think about how you can decorate your bedroom/house.
14. Wash your pet or do tasks.
15. Paint your nails.
16. Bake.
17. Watch a video tutorial.
18. Exercise.
19. Plan your tomorrow outfit.
20. Saw yor broken clothes/pockets.
21. Tidy up/Clean.

Things you probably do that are depressing you

1. Listening to sad/depressing bands that make sad depressing songs.
2. Not sleeping enough.
3. Having contact with people that poison your energy.
4. Being too lazy.
5. Trying to resist cravings.
6. Overthinking.
7. Depending on having a bf/gf to be happy.
8. Speding to much time bored/with nothing to do.
9. Understamate yourself.
10. Not daring to do what you really want.

How to act in class

• Ask when you don't understand something

I known so many people that don't ask and just stay stuck , makes a big difference.

• Wear nice clothes

The simplest things like working or studying can be better when you feel pretty , and people give you the good looks, besides you never know who you may meet.

• Don't get an imposible crush on the "pretty boy"

You don't wanna be a silly looking guy chaser.And may get frustrated about him not liking you back.

Stop making new year resolutions

Stop crying on your Iphone screen about how "fat" you are and how your crush doesn't like you,
making selfish new year resolutions and new diets.
And instead , do what u already owed to do.

Look after those who love you trully , and help at home. Instead of trying to do things to impress people than don't even matter , and help and impress those around you , giving the best of you to those who trully deserve it .

At the end of the day , they are the ones that are there for you day on and day in.

The people you know doesn't like you ? Meet new people.
Is hard I know...But you gotta put yourself out there in the market if you wanna meet new people.
You can make new friends that can change your life completely and make your days full of laughter.

Is up to you to jump up to the roof and grab the things that this world have to offer.

Out there somewhere , there is somewhere someone just like you.

Meet people that fill you up in the inside , don't judge them for their cover , and they won't judge you.
As you feel ugly/clumpsy/awkward/stupid , others are feeling wrong in some other way.

Ovbiously , there will be people who think they are better than everyone ...
But arseholes there have been and there will always be .
They are sad impotent people...

So don't be an arsehole.

When you stop judging people , and they stop judging you , you become free !

Healthy love

1. Never beg for love.
2. Don't chase , don't squeeze , if someone wants to be with you they'll try.
3. They change for anyone. Unless u are an arsehole , then change.
4. Don't be too jelous/possesive , unless you both like to do so , some people are into that.
5. Don't rush.
6. Don't give sex for love , if you don't feel comfortable don't do it.
7. Communicate well.
8. Don't lower your emotional expectations just to not be alone.
9. Don't rush into trying to find love.
10. Don't tell them your big secrets untill you know this person well , they may not be as they seem.
11. don't overthink too much.
12. Love yourself.
13. Don't have too much pride and apologize when u did wrong.
14. don't let the other person treat you like you are less.
15. Never feel like you aren't worthy of love because you are fat/ugly/whatever , we all have perfect "flaws" and the right person will love you , no matter how tall/short/skinny/clumpsy you are . There is always a broken sock for every beautiful unpaired shoe :) Just wait

Basics to being happy

• Sleep enough

When you don't sleep enough everything looks so much darker and harder.

• Put thought in what you wear , how you look.

You dress well , you feel well.

• Stop thinking about yourself as fat.

Obviously...

• don't deprive yourself , and dont binge

You can't be happy depriving yourself , you'll just end up binging , feeling heavy lazy , uncomfortable and depressed.

• Surround yourself with good people .

• Be ready to have bad times , and know that they'll pass.

They'll be days where you will have to go through mud , and the hatters will hate and you will want earth to eat you , but remember...

Everything will be alright .

And someone loves you.