This guide is something I would like to have had when I had no idea about life. Sometimes we can be lost and wrong in what seems so ovbious , or maybe we just left our lifes go into a bad shape .
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Wednesday, 8 April 2015

How to be a good girlfriend

1.Find a gentleman

2.Dress well

3.smell good

4 . Don't text too much , unless you are sure that he likes that

5.Be sweet

6. Have details (for example , you may be at the convince store and see something he said he needed and get it for him while u are there

7. Support your baby in his dreams and goals but tell him gently if you know something is foolish , otherwise when he notices how foolish it was he will wonder why you didn't tell him

8. Thank him without overreacting when he buys u things (for example say thanks gently put one arm over him and give him a small kiss in the cheek)

9. Don't talk rubbish , tell him Something interesting instead . Instead of telling him a lot of meaningless things , tell him something about your day or something you thought, etc.

10. Don't tell him everything about you , he doesn't need to know all your nasty secrets , is ok to keep somethings in the dark as long as they have nothing to do with him

11.Keep it simple , no drama , no guessing, no hints...talk like normal people.

12. Don't let him get away with doing you wrong , but forgive him when he means it.

13. Don't suffer in silence or wait for revenge , tell him when something he did or said hurted you, he may not even know it did because men are really dumb.

14.Be a good host when he comes to your house .

15.Be nice to his friends , if they like you he will be happy that you were around and more likely to invite you to events.

16. If someone is planning or backstabs your partner you should tell them , it may be painful for them to know how their friends really are but you two should protect each other from the rest of people , because "friends" are many , and if you can't count on your partner to tell you the truth then you can't count on anyone

17. Don't be possessive

18. Be cute and kawaii

Saturday, 7 March 2015

Healthy love


  1. Never beg for love.
  2. Don't chase , don't squeeze , if someone wants to be with you they'll try.
  3. They change for anyone. Unless u are an arsehole , then change.
  4. Don't be too jelous/possesive , unless you both like to do so , some people are into that.
  5. Don't rush.
  6. Don't give sex for love , if you don't feel comfortable don't do it.
  7. Communicate well.
  8. Don't lower your emotional expectations just to not be alone.
  9. Don't rush into trying to find love.
  10. Don't tell them your big secrets untill you know this person well , they may not be as they seem.
  11. don't overthink too much.
  12. Love yourself.
  13. Don't have too much pride and apologize when u did wrong.
  14. don't let the other person treat you like you are less.
  15. Never feel like you aren't worthy of love because you are fat/ugly/whatever , we all have perfect "flaws" and the right person will love you , no matter how tall/short/skinny/clumpsy you are . There is always a broken sock for every beautiful unpaired shoe :) Just wait