- Tell their kids that they are too fat (The world already gives too much importance to our bodies , there is no point on putting the finger in the wound)
- Tell their kids that they can't reach a goal.
- Not talking to their kids enough.
- Call their kids stupid/useless when they commit a mistake (This makes your kids believe that they are useless and losing their self confidence , besides they'll start lying to avoid being called stupid)
- Not watching out to know if their kids are really eating (Many times kids starving themselves are not noticed by the parents)
- Not paying enough attention to the kids.
- Not giving enough guidance and not explaining how things really are.
- Make them feel like having a bf/gf is something that they should keep secret away from you (They are going to do so anyway , you like it or no. Is better that they know that they have nothing to hide and introduce him/her to you , so you know what kind of person he/she is )
- Having too high expectations for them (Is okay to ask your kids to get good qualifications and behave well ...But not too much , just check that they are doing their best . You can't ask them more than they can do. Some people are better at some thing than others)
- They don't ask themselves : Is my kid happy with himself/herself ?
- They don't tell their kids they are beautiful
- They don't cuddle them enough
- They don't trust them enough
- They don't stick for them enough (If you don't stick for your own , no one will )
This guide is something I would like to have had when I had no idea about life. Sometimes we can be lost and wrong in what seems so ovbious , or maybe we just left our lifes go into a bad shape .
Wednesday, 11 March 2015
Mistakes parents tend to do
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parenting
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